{"id":612,"date":"2013-03-15T00:08:59","date_gmt":"2013-03-15T04:08:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/psolis.com\/thepoint\/?p=612"},"modified":"2016-01-15T00:36:17","modified_gmt":"2016-01-15T05:36:17","slug":"so-it-begins","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/psolis.com\/thepoint\/2013\/03\/so-it-begins\/","title":{"rendered":"So it Begins&#8230;."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;No ma&#8217;am, go ahead. I&#8217;ll wait for the next teller&#8230;&#8221; I nervously tell the lady behind me in the line. <\/p>\n<p>Then, almost instantly thereafter, the next teller frees up &#038; her customer walks away. &#8220;What do I do?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I hesitated for a minute &#038; the man behind me taps me on the shoulder. &#8220;son, the next teller is free! go on&#8230;&#8221; he urges me to not hold up the line. <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Sir, you can go ahead, I&#8217;m waiting for a specific teller.&#8221; I reply nervously because I just realized that the other tellers heard as well and now they are coyly teasing her. <\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s been a month of Saturdays doing this, and apparently everybody has noticed &#8211; today it became very obvious. I guess I better ask her out today &#038; not let this opportunity go by.<\/p>\n<p>There, her customer finally completes &#038; leaves her counter! <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Hi Ann Marie, great to see you again&#8230;&#8221; Funny, I practice my line to perfection &#038; now that I am face-to-face with her, this is what comes out!<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m great Pablo&#8221; she replies &#8220;what can I do for you today?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I just need to deposit my check&#8230;&#8221; I reply with a lame, truthful reason. I should have said one of my &#8216;exciting&#8217; reasons that I have practiced over &#038; over again in my head.<\/p>\n<p>We engage in small talk for a bit &#038; then I get my nerve to get a little more personal.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;How long have you being working here?&#8221; I ask nervously<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;uh, about six months&#8230;&#8221; she replied and grins a nice smile. <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You have a pretty smile&#8230;&#8221; I said so nonchalant, not really paying attention that I said what my heart wanted me to say. She turns red, bows her head smiling even bigger, and then she looked away nervously.<\/p>\n<div style=\"float:left;margin-right: 10px;\"><span class=\"youtube\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" class=\"youtube-player\" type=\"text\/html\" width=\"320\" height=\"265\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/iGaF4tKUl0o?wmode=transparent&amp;fs=1&amp;hl=en&amp;modestbranding=1&amp;iv_load_policy=3&amp;showsearch=0&amp;rel=1&amp;theme=dark\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<p>&#8220;Ah! there&#8217;s my signal!&#8221; I shout silently in my head. &#8220;&#8230;and so it begins.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She is playing along &#038; didn&#8217;t reject me! This is good&#8230; She is even flipping her hair! She looks at her co-worker &#038; they both giggle. She looks down again &#038; then looks up at me with her big, beautiful smile.<\/p>\n<p>Her shy smile reminds me of Kristy McNichol in the TV show, Family. Grinning ear-to-ear with a slight tilt down of the head, but with her deep, brown eyes making full contact with mine. <\/p>\n<p>I used to have a crush on Meredith Baxter, from that TV show. She has long, flowing blond hair &#8211; that is until I met Ann Marie. Her smile is just so warm and kind. Behind the counter &#038; the safety glass all I can really see is her chestnut brown hair with the flipped ends. It frames her oval face so nicely.<\/p>\n<p>Ann Marie seems very soft, sweet &#038; sexy looking. Her nails are perfectly manicured &#038; have that &#8216;French&#8217; white line on the tips. The money she hands to me even has the feminine scent of her perfume. <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What else can I do for you?&#8221; she says, interrupting my moment of daydreaming. <\/p>\n<p>Oh boy! I&#8217;m about to end our transaction, and I don&#8217;t know what to say&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yeah&#8230; I was wondering what you are doing next Saturday evening? I thought we could maybe catch a dinner &#038; a movie?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;A dinner &#038; a movie? Really, how creative of you!&#8221; my small voice chastises me&#8230; She is slow in replying, so I start to drift into listening to my little voice. &#8220;I bet she is going to shoot you down!&#8221; that voice volunteers again.<\/p>\n<p>She looks up from her counter &#038; then hands me a deposit receipt. &#8220;here is my number, call me &#038; yes, we can go out next Saturday&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Wow! she said yes!!!&#8221; I shout it out really loud &#038; jump all over the place &#8211; all in my head.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Can&#8217;t wait!&#8221; is all she said &#038; again flashed that sexy smile at me as I walked away from her counter. I walk out of the bank with the biggest smile I have ever had.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I cant wait for next week!&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;No ma&#8217;am, go ahead. I&#8217;ll wait for the next teller&#8230;&#8221; I nervously tell the lady behind me in the line. 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